Being a good father is a very important thing. Many fathers spend most of their time at work during the years and devote less and less time to their sons. Through father son bonding, fathers help their sons become mature and responsible people, persons with integrity. They teach them to make the right decisions, form healthy life attitudes and prepare them to overcome all the temptations that life brings. Here are some suggestions on how to spend quality time with your son.
For many boys, fishing with their father remained a very fond memory. If patience is your virtue, this is the perfect setting to teach that to your boy. This activity gives a sense of adventure and exploration of the world, but it also creates opportunities for teaching your child practical and life skills. Let your kid show you how he understood the fisherman role. It doesn’t matter if you don’t catch anything or if everything goes against plan. The bonding and memories are in the shared experience.
Sports are important to every boy, and going to a game with his father is a precious experience. Is your child interested in any specific sport? Let him tell you what he knows and thinks about the game that you are watching. Take this opportunity to get to know your child better. Does your child have no interest in sports? That is fine too. Take him to a game you know, show him how fun it is to be a part of something bigger, and point out to him how dedication and hard work of the players pays off.
From time to time some novelties need to be introduced. Bowling is a sport based on a very simple concept – you have to throw a ball on the track and knock down the pins that are at the end of the track. Awaken the competitive spirit in your son. Show him how to play by the rules and still have fun. Play together with a goal to knock off all the cones before he is skilled enough to play one on one with you. Many children who do not have classical interests such as their peers, or are gentle, often do not consider sports as a form of hobby and fun.
Camping is one of the best father son activities and a great opportunity to spend a good and exciting time together. Staying in nature, away from city noise and polluted air, is truly an unforgettable experience. Through building shelter, you will strengthen the trust that is between you too. Show him how to build a fire, read a compass and other essential survival skills. Make it even more fun using walkie talkies while you explore nature together. Be gentle in communication with your child while he steps into a new world of an adventure of survival in nature.
One of the best ways to spend your free time together is to play board games. Board games can awaken in children a sense of teamwork, and also they can learn new skills. In any case, board games are useful and fun, but you need to make good choices, tailored to the age and interests of your son. Each board game also requires some skill. According to the game manual, it can be estimated how difficult the game is, and for what age it is appropriate.
Children do show interest in science from the early days, with all the questions they have for us about the world they live in. You can use the curiosity your son has and help him develop his inner explorer. Find the answers to his questions together and experiment with his science kit. These toys cover various topics so choose the one that interests your little scientist the most. The whole new world will open up to him, and bond you two even more.
What better way to spend time with your son than to travel to a new place or just drive for a while. It doesn’t have to be far or expensive. Choose your favorite car music and snacks, and just get in the car and drive! Each season brings new opportunities for exploration or activity, both indoors and out. Get out a map (don’t rely solely on your GPS to get from place to place) for a great opportunity to teach your son how to read maps and find roads. You’ll be amazed at how many meaningful conversations can happen when it’s just you and your boy in the car!
Almost all kids love to experiment and what better way to explore than in the kitchen. It is the place where the magic happens, so let your child be the wizard in it. Take over the kitchen and surprise the rest of your family with a great meal. You can even make that a regular monthly ritual for your father and son bonding activities. You don’t have to make anything special; it can only be a simple pizza with already prepared dough. Play some music and put a new spin on your favorite meals. You can even go to a store or a market together and see what food will inspire your next meal.
Since kids spend a lot of time indoors, how about getting them outside? Take your son on a hike or bike ride along the nature trail. Or, if you have more time on your hands, think about taking the whole weekend. Trapped in a concrete jungle? You can still have an outdoor adventure with your son, despite the urban environment. Go to a kite-flying park or tell him to bring his outdoor RC helicopter, and have some fun together. Even a short subway or bus ride can be a great adventure on its own for younger children. It’s a great way to open your eyes to the diversity of people and their general environment.
Connecting to the outside does not necessarily mean throwing a ball or cycling. Planting a garden requires a lot of time and effort, and can take a whole weekend if needed. Gardening is also great for learning how to plan in advance because you have to decide which fruits, vegetables, herbs and flowers you want to grow in your yard. In addition to the importance of being easy to connect, gardening with children offers many other benefits, including promoting collaborative learning, developing responsibility through keeping the garden alive, promoting healthy eating, learning about the environment, and boosting self-esteem with a job well done.
A small construction project is one way you can build a stronger relationship with your son. For younger boys, choose a simple item to build on, such as a birdhouse. Although a hammer may not be safe to work with, they can still help you measure wood and paint the final product. Preteens and adolescents may be more interested in things such as tree houses, and many hardware and home improvement stores offer weekend construction workshops for both parents and children. A mini construction project can show the value of planning, and concentration.
If you are looking for more active father son bonding ideas, try to create a family-friendly habit of going to indoor pools. A 45-minute stay in the water is enough. Teach your boy not just how to swim, but how to be safe in water too. Show him how to dive, and perform various swimming techniques. This activity will help him develop healthier, and it will give him a skill that will boost his confidence.
Reading with your son is one of the most important things you can share. Reading also helps develop children’s ideas and creativity. You can enjoy an endless number of stories that later you will reenact together. You can even invent your own adventures – he is going to be a superhero from a book, or a cowboy riding his outdoor toys, and you can be a bandit he is going to catch. Visit your local library together to find books on any number of topics your son might be interested in. For older boys, try looking at newspapers or magazines together. Learning about current events is vital to developing into well-informed, caring adults.
The moment you enter the museum, allow your child to guide you. It is possible that you will look at something completely uninteresting to you, but let your son explore. In this way, the museum will become a place for him to enjoy fun and curiosity, not a place of boredom. Pay attention to whether there is a program suitable for children within the museum. A large number of museums contain programs or organize child-friendly tours.
Fathers are the first role model for boys, and it is therefore essential that each father devotes sufficient time to each of his children.